For those players who do have kids either tagging along to watch their "Hero" ......."You" play disc golf or old enough to play now, it would completely disturb me if my son was offered a drink, while playing a tournament. Mini events are a different story and if you don't want your little man or little girl around that, you can move to another hole and control your situation. As for a tournament, if your put on a card with players who do not care who is around and do not see the influence they are showing by drinking in front of kids, then you have to speak up. I've even seen players try to pull out a whole bag of "smoke" in front of my own son, until I flipped out on them. It all depends on the tournament being thrown, if you want an event well respected.......keep the beer for before the round, during lunch, and after the round. Too many players treat a tournament like its the local mini event.