I've had the fortunate opportunity to play the game with quite a few women, ranging from those that only play time to time for fun, up to a top 10 world's rated woman <Sarah Stanhope>, and all of them will give you different advice, just like this forum. All of them use what feels right for them, and some are forehand dominant, some are backhand, again, this is total preferance. From my observations......most of competitive women do throw forehand style a good bit....this may be something you might want to try...but do it in an open area! Also, most of the women do prefer a backhand disc to have a smaller rim Vs. a larger one....< a leopard Vs. a boss> so good choices would be lighter weight smaller rim drivers. Good choices would be..leopard,archangel,roadrunner, cheatah. For mid range....good choices would be...Shark, Panther, Skeeter, R-pro Dart. Putters would be like everyone else...find what feels best in YOUR hands, what feels comfortable for you, and go with it. Putting is a lot about comfort and confidence...if you are comfortable with your putter, your confidence will grow! One disc I see a LOT of women use...omega SS...the bead is somewhat smaller than other putters. XD is also this way!
Most of all.....have FUN! Some of the most enjoyable and fun rounds I've had were with ...WOMEN! They will be competitive at times, sure, but most of the ones I've played with were all smiles, and happy, and joking around as well...reminding me of why I play in the first place....to have FUN outside!