Several things
I think this issue touches on more important topics than it seems, and aside from the intent of either party directly involved (dave242 and LStephens), most notably HBB and local involvement (or lack thereof) in course reviews. Some reviewers have touched on these already, but I wanted to bring them out in the open.
Dave, I commend you for the constructive way you responded to the "charges" being levelled against your review. Without a hint of anger or indignation. I like it, and Im glad this thing didn't turn into a cat fight, cuz those are for girls. It was very enlightening for me to hear more explanation aobut how much you deliberated over the the low rating you gave Idlewild, and the value of PREviews + Reviews. Its something I had been thinking about as well.
Personally, I'm not a huge fan of the basic letter grade categories style of reviewing that you mostly do. I can see how someone with your experience and skill would have a lot of very interesting opinions on the courses you play, and I would like to here them in more detail. I look forward to seeing you bulk out more of your reviews to include specifics behind why you gave courses an "A" or "B" in each area. I guess I just like reading long, in-depth writeups of courses, whether they be Rewiews or Previews, but just wanted to say that I hope someday you'll get caught up on all the reviews to add details, as your "form letter" explains, so I can read all the reviews of someone who has more different courses to compare to.
And to LStephens- I agree this could've been handled by PM, but at this point, too late its out there. The initial message did come across as quite harsh (with a dose of HBB), but I appreciated the way you recognized that and clarified the tone you were trying to convey. However, I can tell how much work you put into Idlewild, and I commend you for that. You probably know several of the courses in that area better than most people on this site, that much is obvious from your amazing walkthrough. I agree with what one previous poster said: That knowledge, that detailed hole by hole review, would be a wonderful thing to put on your course review of Idlewild, and the best promotion for the course you could really do on this site, since I can tell how much pride you have in Idlewild, seeing how you have a hand in keeping it great. You are one of the people "in the loop" on Idlewild, and that means you are the kind of person who we absolutely NEED a great review from, since few others know more than you. Something that's always bothered me is that just about every course has wonderful locals like you, who know them extremely well, inside and out. Yet how many courses have an extremely detailed writeup by one of the local experts? Not enough. Too many local reviews are "3 words and five stars" which annoys me. They know so much that they didn't tell us. Thus, I'd love to see all this detail put into your review, because your first post is about 10 times as long and detailed as the review.
Your HBB is understandable in that you love Idlewild, and from what I can tell it looks like wonderful course, but I think its a slippery slope once you start "reaching out" (to put it lightly) to other reviewers who played the course and perhaps don't agree with your opinions of it. From there, its a short distance to the people who vote down any review of DelaVeaga, Flip City, or Idlewild that gives it less than 4.5 or 5.0 stars (death by stoning, if you will). Sorry to single certain courses out, but frankly those three (in addition to being the highest rated) are also courses that IMO have gotten a reputation for this type of "crush the infidel"-style HBB.
I sometimes worry that I might play one of these courses and have to review it. What if I personally thought Idlewild was just a 3 star course (doubt it, but its possible)? I've played courses before and given them the lowest rating by far of anyone else, and wondered if my review would suffer a death by stoning. I know you didn't intend to stone Dave per-se, but please be careful what something like this looks like to people who might think about coming to your area and reviewing your course. They think, whoa, better give it a 5 or else death by stoning. Again, I'm pretty sure that wasn't your intent, since one of your main issues was with perceived factual incongruities in Dave's review vs what you knew to be "true", not mainly the rating itself. However, would you have started this thread if Dave had written the exact same review, making the exact same statements, but given Idlewild 5 stars instead of 3? I think not. So, regardless of your intent, which i personally believe was corrective and helpful in this case, there's still that negative, stereotypical HBB undertone of voting down any dissenting ratings on the home course, which frankly bothers me. You seem very reasonable and articulate, I hope you don't tread down that path.
Oh darn, I did it again. I went on and wrote a Manifesto. Well, that's my lengthy opinion, take it for what its worth. If you disagree with everything I say, that's cool with me, I just wanted to lay it out there for everyone to chew on, since I think we could all learn something from this (I know I have). Lets all just do a good job writing reviews and let the averages work themselves out