I got stuck on the wrong side (Williamsburg side) of the tunnel in rush hour traffic a couple of years ago while at VA Beach on vacation. That was not fun.
From a tourist perspective...
I was fortunate to get invited to play doubles with a group my first time around Bayville. A lot of it "looked" the same and would have made navigation less than fun. I enjoyed the course.
Munden Point was also cool, and easy to navigate. It had 2 tees and 2 permanent baskets per hole to add to your options. Another fun, not great, course.
I went to Virginia Wesleyan College to play, but couldn't get on the grounds without a host. So get to know some college people.
Newport News was OK but I remember it less than any of the others in the area.
Personally, I think that I'd be spending a lot of time at New Quarter if I could learn to manage the drive better than a tourist. It was outstanding. Definitely one of the best that I've played.