I bought my girlfriend pink and yellow 135-145 sharks, a beast, leopard and a rubber putter(she thought it was cute). She would get real frustrated playing with me. So, her best friend's boyfriend plays. What we do is, take beer or vodka, me and him tee off. Then they wait to we are 3 holes or so into the round and then they tee off. They score and play much better that way. My girlfriend isn't so conscious of her throws around me as she is of thinking she is holding me up. And trust me I don't play fast or throw far, it's just in her head. So....we all go to the park, we all play, we all(but one) drink, we all have fun. No problems. Also, for any females that may be on here in the Charlotte, NC area...they have a women's league that plays every Monday night at Elon Park. It was created by women for women only.
Have fun!