I'm on the road and on my phone. Just pulled over for a quick stop and saw there was activity on this thread. I can't read it all right now, but I would like to say two quick things before some of this gets any farther out of hand:
1. Anyone who thinks Dave Hickerson is arrogant hasn't met him.
2. If whoever posted Dave's private email on a public forum did so without Dave's permission, that someone owes Dave ( and everyone else here) an apology. That's just not right.
Thanks,
John
John, I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you on both points. First, the email speaks for itself. Dave may not normally be arrogant, but he certainly came across that way. Secondly, as a business owner, you really have no expectation of privacy in any written communication to a customer or potential customer. Sorry, but that's just the way it is. Don't commit anything to writing that you don't want to see again. That's been a rule long before email. After all, if Ambroze had come on here and told his story without posting the email he would have been castigated (and rightly so) for trashing Selah without proof.
Ambrose comes off like a cheapskate. That is why he got the reaction from Dave that he did. It is almost offensive to try to hit the guy up for a discount. Sounds like he would not even donate a decent amount to play somewhere unless they had a mandatory amount. Sounds to me like there is more to this story that we are getting from Ambrose. Do not know dave but I will be going to Selah sometime and will be happy to pay the full amount for the experience. Do not expect Dave to pay for my gas to get there.
I'm not sure why you have a problem with someone asking for a discount. It's done all the time, and it never hurts to ask. If greens fees are $20 for unlimited golf why shouldn't Dave offer a discount to an out of state guest who only has time for a single round? Doing so would have made him look kind and generous. However, you are correct that Dave is under no obligation at all to accommodate someone's request. However, as a business owner he really needs to consider his responses more carefully.
I was excited to play Selah in October, as I'll have to opportunity to play the 4 top rated courses on this board this year (I live less than 3 hours from Idlewild, my family has a cottage 90 minutes from Flip City, and I'll be in Plano in October). I am now reconsidering playing Selah at all.
I want to make it abundantly clear that I have no involvement with either party involved here. I'm only jumping in because I'm dismayed to see such poor customer service from one of the most highly regarded courses in our sport. I work for a company that has won 17 JD Power Awards for customer service, and after being immersed in that culture for several years I find Dave's email absolutely repugnant. Hopefully this was a one time stumble on Dave's part as so many here have suggested. If so it will fade into the woodwork fairly quickly and be forgotten.
Well once you put a confidentiality stamp on an email it its pretty well protected. I know you weren't trying to be absolute and I somewhat agree that there's less privacy in a personal email. Its more bad manners if anything IMO.
Seriously, how is this not asking for SOMEthing for FREE? Considering that they do not and never have offered green fees/cart for only 18 holes?
What confidentiality stamp? And even if there was one it's not legally enforceable unless both parties agree.
You are aware that there is a difference between free and discount right? Dave could have offered $5 off, and had a happy customer. I'm fairly sure he'd pay that $5 to make this go away right now.