Jimmy,
Thank you for providing the missing information. I'm going to take you at your word that there is no more to it.
I think it's pretty clear now how all this came about, but I'm still confused by some of the things you've said. I am not going to attack you, and I'm not going to defend Dave or Selah or Dave's e-mail. All I want to do is understand. You're probably a very nice guy, and you don't have to answer if you don't want to. My main interest is using this thread as a learning experience for all of us.
First of all, your position is that you never asked for or hoped for a discount. Here's what you wrote in your original e-mail:
"I would hope that would not end up costing me $50 total."
If that's not asking or hoping for a discount, what would you call it?
I can't see it as anything other than hoping for a discount, but maybe I'm missing something.
Second, I don't think anyone called you a bad person. Somebody did say that you "look bad" in this thread. Can you see the difference?
Third, you said "I took the email as patronizing and very arrogant!" Then you said you never said "anything personally bad about Dave." In your mind, what did you do: say something neutral about Dave? Say something bad about his response, but that's not saying anything bad about him?
Finally, you say that now "Everyone needs to chill." In your own words, this all started when "I was pretty upset last night over this email and... I thought I would vent a little." Can you see that this whole thing started when you decided to vent instead of chill?
If we can all "chill" and read each other's posts without preconceptions, maybe we can communicate in a way that uplifts the sport instead of bogging us all down.
Thanks,
John
I'll be more than happy to provide the entire email chain since this is got blown way up and dissected from every angle. Let me clear up a few things. Why am i being called such a bad person along with puckstopper?
People who look bad after this: ambroze, puckstopper
First of all I NEVER asked for a discount and I never said anything negative about Dave? So where did all of this come from? I simply wanted to stop by and play 1 of the courses on my way through - that's all? I asked how much will that be if I wanted to only play 1 course. Is that asking or expecting a discount? NO.
Here's my email:
I found your course on DGCR and mapped out the location and it's going to be on my way to McKinney, TX where I'm going next week. It says on DGCR under the description that the unlimited green fee is $20 a day and a cart is $30. If I am able to stop and play it will be with my wife and 2 year old daughter and we will only have time to play one course. How much will that be if I wanted to only play 1 course and with a cart preferably for my wife and daughter? I would hope that would not end up costing me $50 total.
Also you guys look for me saying anything personally bad about Dave - I did say his reply was arrogant - that's my opinion.
As far as the capitalization at the beginning of Dave's reply I felt off this "Jimmy, " -
You guys really need to stop reading into things that are not there and assuming the worse. Also, for the record I sent the email off of Selah's website to:
[email protected]
Everyone needs to chill.