Good question, it's made me go back and check my assumptions. On thinking further I think actually it's not even down to the full card - the responsibility for defining what constitutes distracting rests with the players calling the violation.
With rules that require two people to call them, it is only the opinion and the judgement of those two people making the call that matters - for the violation to stand, and be recorded against the offending player. (The penalised player can of course appeal any call to the TD, but that is not what we're talking about here.)
It only takes two players to be of the opinion that you stepped on your mini when throwing, for a stance violation to be called against you. While you can of course argue your case, and the other players should allow you to be heard - the penalty call is solely based on the judgement of the two people making the call against you.
If you get called for a falling putt - you don't suddenly get to define what constitutes 'demonstrating balance'. That rests with the calling players.
The excessive time rule requires 2 players to call it (1 for the initial warning). So it is in the judgement of the two calling players as to whether the conditions have been met and whether you've taken over 30s. Why would the offending player suddenly have the right to define what constitutes clear and free of distractions?
I acknowledge that what one player finds distracting another player might not, and therefore the calling players should allow for variation between people. Much the same as 'reasonable time to arrive at and determine the lie' will vary between players based on how fast they are able to walk. But that variation between people doesn't hand over the full responsibility and right to determine what constitutes distracting to the individual player.
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R Our rules give the right to exercise judgement and make calls - to the players making the call.
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