Yes I know weddings are a big deal in America..but I still don't get why you want to spend so much time planing...and spend an insane amount of money to put you in debt longer than the marriage will last for "one big day"
I love free food and drinks so you'd think I'd be into big weddings but I absolutely hate everything about them. I'd rather be in a 3rd world prison than a wedding party again, ugh.