Any way you slice it, the life is a hustle
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner!
In life, you either make things happen or your forced to deal with whatever happens to you (possibly by others that have made their things happen). The OP may not agree with how the folks on the pro tour are trying to make things happen, but it's the way the world works. The sooner you realize this, the better off you'll be.