Behavior like this is learned young. Always makes me wonder what the person went through that made it necessary/appropriate at the time.
This is something that shouldn't really have anything to do with what a 30+ year-old man did, but for real when I yelled at the skinny 10-ish year-old version to stop hitting my car with that stick he puffed out his chest and stepped forward toward me holding onto that stick and glaring at me like he was going to hit me with it. When I grabbed the stick so he didn't hit me with it he freaked out, screamed and started going tug-of-war style trying to get the stick back from me. I had spent about five years earlier in my life working with kids who had the dual diagnosis of MR and behavior disorders, so it wasn't my first rodeo with a completely unhinged kid. It didn't escalate and I managed to get him to put the stick down and get away from my car. He didn't apologize and he continued to chirp at me after he moved away from where I was until Dave finally showed up. Dave yelled at him, he kicked my car as he walked to Dave's Jeep, and they drove off.See posts #152 and 159.
Which is why I'm having a hard time just condemning the guy; I'm watching a video of a 30+ year-old guy throwing his career away and seeing that skinny 10 year-old. Whatever happened to him that made him that wild, untamed 10 year-old, he never dealt with it. He did the same thing this weekend he did when he was 10. Whatever rage he feels inside is right there, ready to burst out. It makes me sad to watch.